This a book which deals with teen suicide and its aftermath, in terms of grief and the search for answers as to why someone might take their own life. 
The author states in her notes that she was the victim of extreme bullying at school which ultimately led to her own suicide attempt, so the book is clearly very personal and meaningful to her. 

At the start of the book, Al takes his own life. The book has 2 narrators, Megan and Nathan and the story is told by them in alternating chapters. Megan was a friend of Al's at school and Nathan is Al's younger brother. Al did not leave a note, explaining his actions, and Nathan is searching for the reasons why his brother would have wanted to kill himself. Megan is seeking to find a way to honour Al, who was an A grade student and talented artist, while dealing with her own teenage difficulties of friendships and relationships. Al's death also reignites her grief for her father who has previously passed away.

The subject of suicide and the handling of the feelings of those left behind is deftly handled by Jawando. It never feels sensational or overdone. Jawando focuses on the feelings and reactions of Al's siblings and friends, the adults in Al's life, his mum and teachers are included, but I felt the book was more powerful by focusing on the feelings of Al's contemporaries, and the effect of social media, and the pursuit of "likes" on their young lives. 

I felt the book tackled the subject of grief really well. It affects every grieving person in different ways, and Nathan's grief for his big brother is clearly difficult, not just for him, but for all those around him, who are struggling to understand his pursuit for "answers" about Al's death. 

This being a work of fiction, there is a neat ending where justice is meted out, and answers are obtained. I think again Jawando wrote that very effectively, as it could have felt pat or convenient, and it didn't. 

I don't know if I would have been able to read this book if I had been personally affected by the subjects raised, not without a bit of distance first anyway. It is a difficult subject to write about and Jawando deals with it really well, without straying into melodrama, but in some ways that made it feel more real. 
I would definitely recommend this book for parents who are trying to understand their teenagers and wondering what they might be getting up to however!

This is a powerful book about grief and loss, set on a council estate in the north of England. I related immensely, immediately. The two main characters, Nathan and Megan, were distinct and both very easy to feel sympathy towards. The story wasn't breakneck, but that was a good thing considering the subject matter.

I have to say that if you're not in the right place to be reading about bullying, suicide or grief then this is probably not the book for you, as it hits hard.

Well written and thoughtful character-led drams that packs a strong emotional punch. Explores themes of bullying, family, responsibility and grief and leaves the reader with much to think about. An engaging - and occasionally heartbreaking - debut.

This has to be one of the hardest hitting books I've read for a long time. Seriously, it made me sob. 
A sad, heart wrenching and emotional story about the serious implications of bullying. 
I would say the first half of this book is a bit of a slow burn, there's alot of distributing backstory and defining characters. In the second half the story line starts to come through and the emotion sets in. 
There was no sugar coating in this book, it really screamed out some truths about grief, mental health, suicide and the impacts social media can have on people's lives. I found myself truly hoping that Al would be alive at the end of the book, but that's not true to life. 
One thing that really struck me was that in a note from the author Danielle Jawando; she reveals that a very similar thing happened to her when she was at school and she attempted to take her own life as a result. This is by far the most emotional thing about this book as it makes the story more than 'just a story' it's real and it's really happened to people out there. As much as I loved reading this book, it really left me emotionally shaken. 

Overall a fabulous, tear jerking read that I'll definitely never forget.

Wow! This book is gut wrenching and heartbreaking from the first chapter.

Nathan’s family is torn apart by Al’s suicide. Al is a talented artist with a bright future that is going to take him to Cambridge and far away from the Manchester estate where he lives. Nathan is racked with guilt having missed a call from Al just before he died and being unable to save him.

Angry and grieving he tries to work out what was going on in Al’s life. The story that unravels is shocking, and even sadder based on the writer’s own experiences of school.

Nathan’s emotions are raw and beautifully realistic. Moments of normality and happiness are contrasted with grief and overwhelming anger. His growing friendship with Megan is tentative and builds slowly into something genuine and positive. Despite the heartbreak the ending of this book is hopeful and heart-warming.

The level of bullying that is revealed is shocking, but what is more shocking is the casual way the young people involved dismiss the impact of their actions on other people. Hurtful comments are laughed away as being “banter” and the internet and social media are places for bullies to hide. This book shows how far more needs to be done to protect young people and support their mental health.

The relentless peer pressure amongst groups of so called friends blurs the lines between bullies and victims. Some of the people who bully Al are also victims of bullying and nastiness themselves. The desire to fit in to a group and the lengths people will go to do should not be underestimated.

Some of the things Nathan discovers are clear to the reader much sooner, but this doe snot in any detract from the impact they have on the characters when they put the pieces together.

This book is both fantastic and horrific at the same time because of the realism. I will definitely be recommending it 🙂 Thank you Netgalley for the digital copy in return for an honest review.

I really liked this book. It's very personally about suicide and bullying and a kid trying to pick up the pieces after a suicide. I loved Nate and Megan and liked the book in general.

AND THE STARS WERE BURNING BRIGHTLY is the kind of book you do need a snapshot of insight into before you enter, in this case, I do recommend reading the blurb. This is a story about suicide, grief, bullying and social media. It is powerful and painful, chilling and stunning. I think it’s a really important book and it’s 100% worth the emotional investment.

The book started and ended with an author note, I had the privilege of hearing the author read the beginning note and the first chapter at a publisher event. There wasn’t a whisper in the room and I fought tears listening to her. The reading experience is pretty much like that, the story and the characters plunged me into their worlds, wrapped me up in their fraught emotions and spat me out a bit of wreck.

Nathan was the brother, grieving his older sibling and questioning everything; he needed the why to these events, some reason and he was determined. Alongside Nathan were family, other siblings, his mother, his friend, Al’s friend Megan and some nasty characters. This was an intricately woven story, whereas the reader you were alongside Nathan, searching for answers.

My chest goes all tight, knowing that I’ll never see him for real again, that he’ll only ever be this person in a photo.

Eli’s character was tangibly written, believable in his cruel manipulations and plain bullying. Tara and Lewi were more subtle in their connections to the situation and how events finally wove together was pretty shocking. Social media was the weapon wielded in this book and some of the elements took my breath away.

The picture of grief was palpable, I could feel the anger, despair and sadness rising out of the pages, I’m not an easy crier at books but I was an easy crier at this book. Nathan’s emotions had the power to affect me deeply as did Al’s short chapter starters.

For me, as a Mancunian, this book was a gift in dialogue and narrative. It was written as Mancunians speak, quite literally and I found it easy to sink into. I don’t think this element will be difficult for any other readers, but you might wonder for the first few pages as you settle into this.

Danielle Jawando captured the issues in this book with honesty, she didn’t hold back on the difficult stuff, this was an absolute strength of this book. These issues shouldn’t be diluted to make it more palatable, your heart should break as you navigate this with the characters. I am beyond impressed with this fictional debut and I will be watching avidly for more from this author.

I will buy this for our library, but probably restrict it to Y9 and above due to the subject matter. Danielle writes brilliantly, and although I found the subject difficult at times as it was a little close to home. My daughter had mental health issues in her early to mid teens, and I feel that despite reading the book I can't really discuss the suicide  The story is quite intricate, with the lives and relationships portrayed in a very human and complex way, at times hard to read but so powerful. I can't wait to read her next book....

I really enjoyed this book - once I started I found I could not put it down and kept coming back to it. It's a beautifully written story about grief, family, suicide and the horrific effects of bullying in teens, and it has a wonderful mystery engine that kept me turning the pages - the perfect combination. It's full of heart and beautiful imagery and lingered with me long after I finished.

This is a beautifully written book that tackles some very hard topics. TW for suicide and grief. Nate's voice is refreshingly different in the YA world at the moment. It was nice to read a diverse British voice. The story of Al unfolds slowly, but the pace feels right for the topic. And the way its written feels like somewhere between YA and literary adult fiction. 

I really enjoyed this book and wouldn't be surprised if it was snapped up for a Netflix series or film.

And the Stars Were Burning Brightly is an intensely moving and thoughtful book. When his brother, Al, kills himself, Nathan is devastated. He desperately needs to know why: what was going on in Al's life to drive him to this act?

Megan, Al's friend, is just as devastated, but throws her energies into keeping Al's memory alive by displaying his art. These two people meet, and bound by their loss, develop a friendship. 

As the book progresses the reader starts to find out more about what was going on in the life of Al, and the challenges that face Megan and Nathan: what is a friend? When is a friend not a friend?

Wow, What a read. A beautiful heartbreaking story told via two different characters following a teenage boys suicide. Why did he do it ?, the two characters search for the answers. I was in floods of tears when I found out. I think this book needs to be read by every teenager in high school. Please please read this book. My son is now reading it. I work with children and young people and see the devastation bullying can do. It needs to stop. I read this in 3 sittings found it hard to put down .

PS would make a great movie?series.

When fifteen-year-old Nathan discovers that his older brother Al, has taken his own life, his whole world is suddenly torn apart.

Al was special, talented and had so many dreams. So, why did he do it?

Convinced that his brother was in trouble, Nathan decided to retrace Al's footsteps. Whilst doing this he meets Megan, Al's former classmate, who is determined as Nathan to keep Al's memory alive.

Together they start seeking answers, but will either of them be able to handle the truth about Al's death when they finally discover what happened?

I had been hearing so many amazing things about this book in the lead up to it's release so much so that I had to buy a copy of it myself. My plan was to read this before attending the NYA Lit Fest at the end of March where Danielle would be doing a signing. Due to everything that has happened NYA has been cancelled but I'm so glad I picked this book up thanks to it and flew through it. It is a heart-breaking, eye-opening, heavy and incredible debut novel that I'm so glad I picked up.

I can't disguise from the fact that this story is extremely heavy. The themes in this book are often far from easy to read. This book tackles topics and themes such as suicide, bullying, poverty and much more and it doesn't sugar-coat them in anyway. This book is actually inspired by the experience of Danielle Jawando herself. As horrible as these experiences will have been for her I hope that this book helps people in the position that she was in.

The characters of this book are flawed in many ways. They make mistakes and wrong choice. They do hurt people sometimes on purpose but mostly on accident. They aren't always sure about how to talk about going on inside their minds and in the world. But when they do open up and share their grief and pain magical things about. The characters learn from one another, they heal, even if just a little, but we heal with them too.

This book is told from two perspectives. Megan's perspective and Nathan's perspective. Both perspectives are so different yet so wonderful. I loved both characters and as I said before they are flawed but you can learn so much from them. Danielle has done an excellent job in her writing to make you feel so connect to these characters throughout the book.

What made the characters feel more real to me was the fact that the book wasn't written in clean English. It is written in a language that fits the characters perfectly. It isn't always perfect English, it is how people speak most of the time in Wythenshawe, Manchester and it is real. It all feels extremely real.

The story is also so real. The characters may be fictional, but the story itself definitely isn't. The struggles, what happens to them and how they deal with it, it is real and it is happening to so many people on a day-to-day basis. The world can be a wonderful place, but it can also make peoples lives hell and with no route out. This book shows that and this book is real!

Overall, And the Stars were Burning Brightly is an important, raw and real book that hits hard. It is a book I highly recommend and it is a book that has to be read! Go and pick this book up, you won't regret it!

A great read,once I started I didn't want to stop reading. It is a powerful rollercoaster of emotions and addresses a sensitive topic really well.

First off: reader caution. This book deals heavily with suicide (both the moments after and the effect on those bereaved by suicide), bullying, the effects of social media, body image and mental health. 

This is a beautiful and heartbreaking read as Nathan is struggling to make sense as to why his apparently perfect big brother took his own life - in effect he needs someone to blame. He’s left with the unique type of grief that only those who are bereaved by suicide will experience - the anger, the guilt, the questions, the pain and the anguish. Each chapter, which  alternates between Nathan and Megan’s viewpoint starts off with Al’s story and he truly is a beautiful person and the bullying that’s he’s subjected to is heartbreaking. 

This is an emotionally hard read, but covers the pain some go through when trying desperately to be honest and true to yourself, but the ‘joys’ of peer pressure and fear prevent us from being our true selves, and also prevent us from seeking help. These are important messages - we shouldn’t feel afraid to seek out help when we need it and we shouldn’t feel ashamed to show our true selves. This is hard enough for an adult, damn near impossible for a teen.  

Finally a powerful message from Danielle Jawando; 
“Please remember to always be kind, but, most importantly, know that you deserve to be here. It will get better, and it is never your fault, no matter how different you are. So speak up and seek help – there is no shame in admitting that you’re hurting. Like Al, you were born to live. You were born to shine. But, most of all, you were born to burn bright.”
❤️

A desperately sad story of bullying, isolation and suicide. Nate’s creative and loving older brother Al has taken his own life, and in the midst of his shock and grief, Nate is determined to find out what happened to his brother. With the help of one of Al’s only true friends, Nate uncovers a web of bullying and lies and realised how much his brother had kept hidden. The book is unflinching in its delivery and asks important questions of all of us.

Although this book wasn’t quite to my taste and I found it harder to read that I had expected, I do think that it focuses on important subject matters in this day and age. An exploration of social media and the devastating affects it can have on the self-esteem of a young person, alongside bullying in schools (both in person and through social media). A reminder that we need to take time to listen (to words and body language and to what people don’t say) to those we care about. A reminder that it’s ok to be who we truly are and that cruel words can really devastate a person. Maybe this book will remind those in the throes of teenage years, that they are not alone and to find ‘true’ friends to share with and confide in.

And The Stars Were Burning Brightly by Danielle Jawando is simply one of the best books that I have ever read! I honestly don't think that I can fully explain how much I loved this book or why. From the endearing characters to the heartwrenching storyline I loved every moment of reading it, even when I was sobbing my heart out. And I'm talking proper messy, snotty, ugly crying!
Al, 17 years old, takes his own life by hanging himself and his younger brother Nate, 15 years, finds him. The story is then told from Nate's point of view and also Al's friend, Megan's. Nate is adamant that Al wouldn't have done something so terrible without a serious reason and so he sets out to discover what led to Al's death. We see Nate and Megan dealing with issues of cyber bullying, gangs, drugs and family problems. Both also deal with the guilt and the what ifs that you would expect when someone is going through the sudden loss of a loved one. I just wanted to dive in and help Nate. To hug him. To tell him that he shouldn't feel guilty or bad about himself.
Each chapter starts with a paragraph from Al's point of view so we can learn more about him and what he was feeling. Nate's chapters are written in text / slang talk and this is done very well and just develops Nate's character more.
Some children / teen books don't come across quite right and you can feel the adult writing in there but And The Stars Were Burning Brightly was written in a very realistic way, in the way that kids would think about things, such as, Nate imagining his Brother floating up to heaven and getting tangled up in telephone wires and tree branches along the way.
I truly believe this book should be read by as many people as possible. It's incredibly relevant to teens now, especially when thinking about how their actions or inaction can affect others so greatly.

When I requested 'And the Stars Were Burning Brightly' I expected this book to be a heavy one. But I wasn't ready for the author's note at the beginning of the book sharing her own experiences, it set the tone for this heart breaking novel about suicide, grief, social media and online bullying. 

The book picks up when Nathan and his family are grieving his brother Al's suicide. The chapters all begin with a little insight into who Al was and is told from Nathan's and Meg's (a friend) perspective.

An important book about the impact of social media on our lives. A book that should be in all secondary schools libraries, raising awareness and sharing this important message of bullying and its consequences.

I'm afraid I struggled to get even past the first chapter with the incorrect spelling which seemed neither for effect or used in speech. 
I cannot bear reading something where words in the narrative are not correct