Abandoned Not Broken

The Passion & Perspective to discover your Purpose

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Pub Date 14 Sep 2020 | Archive Date 30 Apr 2021

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An adopted child finds inspiration and determination from family, friends and mentors and grows into manhood successful, well-liked and respected, in the moving memoir, Abandoned Not Broken: The Passion and Perspective to Discover Your Purpose.

Robert Dunckley was the third child of a single mother. His father disappeared not long after the seemingly happy partnership with his mother, and a caring great-grandmother stepped in with financial support. With her oversight, the little boy was taken in by his loving babysitter, Pat Johnson, who soon adopted him, giving him her surname and two older siblings.

Through trying circumstances, young Robert always found friends, leading to membership in a local church youth group. Regular participation with that group became his passion; within it he would forge relationships that have lasted throughout his life. Johnson was soon working for a man he called Mr. Reds, owner of a thriving pizza shop, giving him a long-term passion for such work.

A tender teen romance led Johnson to propose to his girlfriend Heather on live TV; there ensued a genuinely happy marriage that is still going strong. The couple and their three children were sometimes pinched financially, and at times, Johnson’s dedication to his own full-time pizza business kept him away from family more than he liked. But with support from friends, a strong faith, and drawing on his own inner reserves, Johnson has overcome many barriers.

Johnson writes his memoir with verve and confidence that comes from a feeling that he had even as a child – that he is special. Being adopted, when he could so easily have been left to be raised by “the system,” gave him the sense of being picked, like a promising athlete, for the A team – a perspective that is not usually found about adoption, which gives the book a refreshingly unique point of view. His romantic and somewhat frantic plan to propose to Heather in front of Queen Latifah and a live audience is just one of the many engaging incidents that reveal his true grit even as a teen – each moment written with straightforward prose, but also eloquence in conveying emotion. Tracking and happily reuniting with his birth father is another example of Johnson’s perseverance and good intentions.

The net results of Johnson’s firmly held aspirations – contented home life, well-ordered business ventures, and a fervent belief in God’s plan “for a better tomorrow” – give proof of his campaign slogan when he once ran for county office: “Be the Change.” Though he lost that election, he had a victory celebration anyway, pleased to recall that he had managed the campaign with integrity. Again, the focus on loss, rather than only triumph, illuminates Johnson’s honest and inspiring perspective, which elevates the book from memoir to self-help, as the subtitle suggests.

Now in mid-life with his children in school, he gives back through his pizza business, serving up to 400 school lunches a day. He is a church elder and teaches a faith-based youth group of the sort that once significantly benefited him. He is well aware that his early life could have presaged failure and despair, but he was led to, or moved willingly toward, experiences that opened a positive, successful path. This book, then, acts as a kind of manual of the work Johnson is doing in his everyday life, which will be most effective for religious readers, but there is plenty of wisdom and insight for other readers as well.

Uncommonly forthright with a unique perspective on many areas of life, Johnson’s reminiscences serve as a useful guidebook of encouragement and motivation for young people struggling with issues of self-worth, and adults looking for ways to mold their success into community and church activism.

An adopted child finds inspiration and determination from family, friends and mentors and grows into manhood successful, well-liked and respected, in the moving memoir, Abandoned Not Broken: The...


Advance Praise

Worthy to read

Incredible. I couldn't put it down.

Rob put his heart on every page.

Well written and a true blessing.

God has truly blessed you.

Worthy to read

Incredible. I couldn't put it down.

Rob put his heart on every page.

Well written and a true blessing.

God has truly blessed you.


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Having been adopted myself and becoming a Christian in 2009, I was immediately attracted to the synopsis of this title. If this makes you think “well, I’m not adopted or a Christian so this book isn’t for me” can I please ask you to think again. This book is for everyone, it’s a truly remarkable life story of bravery, courage, determination and belief. Often, adopted people feel abandoned, have little self worth and that they have no purpose in life. In the telling of his life story, Rob shows us that this shouldn’t be the case, how God has perfect plan for all of our lives and that we should never let our past dictate our future.

This book was a delight to read, I am so grateful to Rob for sharing his story and I pray that it brings comfort and encouragement to all that read it. Highly recommend this to anyone, especially if you have questions about how God can work in your life and what a faith led life can be like if you accept Christ into it. Life isn’t easy, being a Christian isn’t easy, but living a Christian life is a wonderous adventure each and every day.

Thank you to Net Galley, Xulon Press and Rob Johnson for providing me with a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

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This was an interesting read. It was highly recommended by someone on social media who told me that this book didn't need to be read by Christians to be enjoyed. I have to disagree. Whilst I agreed with some of the sentiments throughout the book "believe in yourself and you can achieve anytihing", the Christian angle was much stronger and I felt a little put off every time it was mentioned.
Nevertheless, it was a quick story about someone who achieved so much even when dealt a poor hand, and I have a lot of admiration for him.

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This is an autobiographical book about a boy who is adopted and his life. He harbors no bad feelings to his biological mother. In fact, he’s grateful that she realized she couldn’t give him a good life. As with most adoptees, he had a desire to find out more about his family history. He is able to connect with his biological parents and develop a relationship with them.

The author, Rob, is an amazing individual in his constant display of gratitude to everyone in his life. His adoptive, single mother, Pat, had two children of her own, took him into her home, and treated him as one of her own. He gives heart-wrenching insight into his childhood: “We were living in a two-bedroom apartment, driving around in used cars, living week-to-week, paycheck-to-paycheck, but to us life was perfect.” While Pat had struggled with money and health, she still gave him the same love and care as her own children. She sounds like an amazing woman. His “brother”, Brian, became involved in the dealing of drugs to help the family’s finances.

The author is given a positive influence through church, Bridgeton Assembly of God. He was a “van kid” (picked up to go to church) and his life benefited tremendously by the grace of God. The Youth group was a strongly positive influence. The network of friends and mentors that were involved in his life was extremely influential in his successful life. He becomes a husband, father, businessowner of several businesses, and a community role model. He was a committed, hardworking individual and openly shares the good and bad in his life. “Life can and will get tough from time to time, that’s just the way it is.”

While his story was touching, the writing style was mediocre. He shared his story adequately, but deeper character development would have been appreciated. Hence, the three stars.

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher, Xulon Press Elite, for an Advanced Reader Copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

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Abandoned Not Broken. , This is a autobiographical. Its about a boy who is adopted and his life. He has a desire to meet and find out more about his birth family and history. He connects with his biological parents and he develops a relationship with them.

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