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I found this book incredibly thought provoking. It was quite a difficult read in some places as my instinct was that Cath should be doing everything she could to care for her child and sometimes her actions did not seem to do this however who can say how you would react? It was well written and really made me think.

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This book is really well written throughout; from the CF diagnosis to the affair to the eventual acceptance of the diagnosis. The story is written from Cath’s perspective and even if the decisions aren’t the sensible ones you find yourself routing for her to get through it and make the right decisions.

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Well i felt mixed emotions reading this book. Its a moving story about a young couple having a child with a life limiting illness. We see their struggles and feel their pain as they try to deal with what is ahead of them. One of them forms a "friendship" with someone from a help group, and this starts the change of everything. A well written story.

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At first I thought this was [just] going to be about a new mum’s struggle when her baby is diagnosed with cystic fibrosis and so it is but with emotional twists and chilling turns. It took a little longer than usual to get in to but once I did it had me well and truly hooked. The author has a child with cystic fibrosis and I find it amazing that she could write about something which is so close to her heart and yet give it such a sinister twist. Persevere, it’ll be worth it.

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Not an easy read but a very believable account of how a mother learns to cope with a child's illness. Didn't always like the main character but I could understand her.

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Overall this a good read. I expected it to be more dramatic after reading the description. I really felt for Cath and Dave. I totally understood Caths need to have the house as clean as possible.

Thank you to Netgalley for my copy.

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Cath and Dave have 25 days of pure bliss with their newborn baby, Mia, and then the phone rings and their lives are changed forever. After a routine blood test Mia is diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis. Cath and Dave have a steep learning curve of physio, medication etc which would put a strain on anyone’s relationship. Who would you cope in their situation ?

Soon it all becomes too much and they drift further and further apart. Unable to communicate with each other Cath suddenly finds herself in a situation that could not only destroy her marriage, it could also endanger Mia’s life. What will she do ?

This is a real eye opener about the implications of living with Cystic Fibrosis and the impact this can have on the families involved. A great book with some really emotional parts. A story of family, love, lies, betrayal, illness, and so much more.

Thank you to HarperCollins and NetGalley for a digital copy of this book.

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3.5 stars

A completely different read to my usual stuff... glad I picked it up.
Really quite heart breaking that parents go through things like this,with babies so young too... I could see why it might turn somebody slightly ocd. 
It did a good job of showing the reckless and the regret and the huge guilt of possibly contaminating Mia... and a good job on the family dynamics too.
Interesting read.

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Cath and Dave's daughter is diagnosed with cystic fibrosis.

Dealing with the diagnosis in different ways Dave becomes the practical one while Cath starts going to support groups. It is here that Cath meets Richard, the dad of another girl with CF.

An interesting story about love, responsibility and coming to terms with long term illness.

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What happens if your much longed for first baby is born with an incurable, life limiting disease? This is the situation facing Cath and Dave when their daughter is diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis. Soon their already shaky relationship is put under tremendous strain.
It is a well written story, but it does not make for comfortable reading and none of the main characters are particularly sympathetic or in any way likeable. For much of the book, the story proceeds at a torturous pace, as it is bogged down by the medical minutiae of caring for such a sick child and the mother’s inability to cope.
I would like to thank NetGalley and the publishers for providing an advance copy of the book in exchange for an honest review.

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I must admit that I was expecting something a little more dramatic going by the reviews. Instead, not a lot happens to a couple of unpleasant people.

Slow moving with one dimensional characters, I couldn't even bring myself to care about the children.

Not the best book I've ever read.

Thanks to Netgalley for the ARC without obligation to review.

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A fantastic read. Thoroughly enjoyed this and it is not something I would usually pick up. Will look for more from this author in future.

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An interesting book that takes you into the lives of parents whose children have cystic fibrosis. It shows that life does not always turn out as you expect to. Highly recommend read

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Cath has just 25 days of 'normality' with her newborn baby, before Mia is diagnosed with Cystic Fibrosis. Cystic fibrosis (CF) is a genetic disorder that affects mostly the lungs, but also the pancreas, liver, kidneys, and intestine. Long-term issues include difficulty breathing and coughing up mucus as a result of frequent lung infections.

It's easy to see how a couple faced with such a frightening diagnosis would retreat into a corner, as if in war, preparing for battle, apportioning blame on the only ones they can - each other.

Cath and her husband Dave, find it impossible to talk to each other any more (difficult to be in the same room as each other) so Dave finds solace in football matches and a pint with his mates, while Cath joins a CF parental support group. It's here that she meets Richard, who’s daughter also has CF. Richard is handsome and charming and they begin a passionate love affair that puts not only their already precarious marriages in danger, but baby Mia's life in peril too!

This was so well written that it’s difficult to say you didn’t like the characters very much, Cath in particular. She knowingly puts Mia’s life in danger, preferring to put her role as a woman and mistress significantly higher than her role as a mother. She’s undoubtedly selfish, which also happens to describe Richard too, though his selfishness goes off the radar!

The narrative is written entirely from Cath’s perspective, and although we are given a sense of her immediate family’s feelings, it would have been good to see it from Dave’s point of view.

Motherhood can be a difficult and exhausting time anyway, without the stress and anxiety of that precious little bundle who you’ve waited 9 months to meet, being diagnosed with a life limiting disease, and in that respect it’s a distressing and moving read, but the author made this journey so compelling, and so informative, that there was no putting this one down!

* Thank you to Netgalley and HarperCollins UK for my Arc. I have given an honest unbiased review in exchange *

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An interesting read, particularly in terms of the details of cystic fibrosis, and the implications for the family of a sufferer, of which I was unaware. It truly is a terrible condition to have to deal with and I think the author handled this very well, However, I found the characters of Cath and Richard to be thoroughly unlikable and thought they were both very selfish in their actions. Overall, an informative read and I did enjoy it.

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Mother by Hannah Begbie a four-star read that will strike you. I was so conflicted with my rating of this story as in some ways it was a great read and in others it was sorely lacking. The thing that swung me was the fact that the book was about cystic fibrosis a topic that you don’t see written or talked about as much as it should be. Cath was someone I didn’t ever warm to, I didn’t care that she had an affair, lots of married women do especially women with circumstances that push relationships apart. For me is was the lack of maternal instinct, as a mother you have one job, put your child first and she did that while her baby was healthy, but ones she got that diagnosis it started to drop off. I don’t know if I am bias towards Cath, but I felt for her husband so much more than I did her. I will say this, this is just my opinion and others may love the book, if you want a book that will give you drama then this is it. I will watch for the authors next book and if I like the blurb I may give it a go, it’s a complex book to rate.

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I really wanted to like this book and the writer is clearly talented. However, I didn't like any of the characters, especially the mother at the centre of the story. Perhaps if we'd seen what she was like before her daughter's diagnosis then I could've seen how that changed her. She came across as really selfish and horrible to her husband and own mother so it was hard to feel sympathy

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I found this a very depressing read. As a mother of a disabled child I found this unrealistic and full of negativity. Yes it is stressful and hard and incredibly challenging but the characters in this book were just too extreme.

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I loved this book. It was not what I expected at all.
At first I thought it was a psychological thriller but it was so much more. A really emotional read.the author has got the characters on point and the relationships between them so addictive. I really want through a rollercoaster of emotions with this one. A fantastic story that will stick with me !

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I've never read this author or anything like this before, I can honestly say the book and the character's kept me reading, I couldn't put the book down. I didn't want the book to end. The strength and weakness Cath showed through out the book was brilliant

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