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How to Live Korean

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Due to a sudden, unexpected passing in the family a few years ago and another more recently and my subsequent (mental) health issues stemming from that, I was unable to download this book in time to review it before it was archived as I did not visit this site for several years after the bereavements. This meant I didn't read or venture onto netgalley for years as not only did it remind me of that person as they shared my passion for reading, but I also struggled to maintain interest in anything due to overwhelming depression. I was therefore unable to download this title in time and so I couldn't give a review as it wasn't successfully acquired before it was archived. The second issue that has happened with some of my other books is that I had them downloaded to one particular device and said device is now defunct, so I have no access to those books anymore, sadly.

This means I can't leave an accurate reflection of my feelings towards the book as I am unable to read it now and so I am leaving a message of explanation instead. I am now back to reading and reviewing full time as once considerable time had passed I have found that books have been helping me significantly in terms of my mindset and mental health - this was after having no interest in anything for quite a number of years after the passings. Anything requested and approved will be read and a review written and posted to Amazon (where I am a Hall of Famer & Top Reviewer), Goodreads (where I have several thousand friends and the same amount who follow my reviews) and Waterstones (or Barnes & Noble if the publisher is American based). Thank you for the opportunity and apologies for the inconvenience.

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This felt like a good primer and introduction to all things (south) Korea. Loved that it covered a lot of aspects like history and then the culture of modern life, though I wouldn't say it was actually a guide to 'living' Korean - in that sense, the amount of information given felt a bit surface, though I suppose each aspect covered could've garnered its own book to go really in depth with all intricacies covered. Still, this is a really eye-opening look at the life in South Korea and what makes the culture what it is

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This is a cute little book about all things Korean, covering the Korean lifestyle from many basic angles for the good visitor/interested reader experience. I'd say that this is not an in-depth book, but given the length it still covers the basics and even gives the interesting outlooks and facts out in the pleasant, readable way. The "user friendly" approach makes this a good basic book for the travellers.
I myself have travelled to Korea the last year and can attest to the some realities presented. Of course, not all the areas are covered (like safety and travelling tips, but this is not a tourist guide, either).
So, read this as a basics, and then dwelve deeper with a good tourist guide - or watch Korean movies and dramas! And yes, be ready to buy your water bottlede, as the water there is not drinkable :)

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This was an enjoyable overview of Korea's culture and travel destinations with lots of beautiful photos. The information just scrapes the surface but you can always get other books if you're interested in one particular topic.
Definitely makes me want to travel 🧳

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Ever since I've watched Hyori's Bed & Breakfast on Netflix, I'm in love with Korean culture and yes, Korean cuisine. This book was so easy to read, and I learned enough on many topics. In parts, I was shocked, and in parts, I felt I wanted to be a Korean. Would be recommending this to anyone who wants to learn a bit about Korea.

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If you’re interested in learning more about South Korea, How to Live Korean is a great place to start. From an overview of thousands of years of Korean history to the latest in technology and creative arts, the author takes you on a tour of Korean life that includes food (with recipes!), beauty and fashion, relationships, and society. Vivid photographs pop with color, showing the wide variety of life in South Korea from traditional to ultra-modern. Although it’s not meant as a tourist guide, How to Live Korean points out places and sights worth including in any trip.

Korean meals usually include small side dishes called banchan (반찬), which come in a wide variety and are meant to be shared. How to Live Korean is like that: a wonderful sampling of many different topics, with enough explanation to give you an enjoyable taste of each, and knowledge that you’ll want to share..

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How to Live Korean is a beautifully presented guide to Korea’s history, customs, culture and economy.

It opens with an overview of Korea’s ancient history and later profiles the Japanese occupation, the North-South split, national uprisings and economic growth. Although the book includes some information and photos about North Korea, I found it most interesting to learn something of Korea’s history outside of its relationship with North Korea. However, it was moving to see photos of the gorgeous Pohyonsa temple. It’s easy to forget sometimes that North Korea is also home to many cultural relics and fine buildings.

The modern history heavily focuses on South Korea’s successful industries, especially technology, film and music. It describes the influence of large conglomerates run by a family (chaebol). This will give you a better grasp of news reports about abuses of power, corruption monopolistic behaviour and government ties.

Although some of these matters are very serious, most of the book is written in a breezy, conversational manner. The large photos, illustrations and charts are so nicely done that this book leaps over from travel guide to coffee table book. It includes a few light hearted lists such as 10 Things You Never Knew About South Korea (It has 3,000 islands!) and 10 Fascinating Koreans. The geography and general travel tips are useful but a bit similar to what you’d likely find in other popular travel guides. Common phrases, slang and proverbs are included but with a twist. There’s no ‘where’s the toilet?’ but rather, ‘continue to work hard’ as a way to say something like have a nice day or a phrase for how to call someone out on acting arrogant.

What separates How to Live Korean from other travel guides is its analysis of ‘The Korean Spirit.’ The descriptions of how different generations view family duty, relationships, friendships and social life would be incredibly helpful for anyone wanting to live in Korea or make new friends. Dating, anniversaries and public displays of affection are covered briefly, although this section might be the most useful for foreigners wishing to avoid accidental embarrassment. It’s cute to see the photos of couples dressing alike and I honestly had a difficult time imagining living in a place where a 100 day anniversary is a thing. The class system is discussed quite a bit in the marriage and wedding sections. Most of these sections are written from the perspective of Koreans thinking about other Koreans. The book does not address relationships between Koreans and foreigners. Additionally, it does not share any information about how a traveller might be treated in Korea based on nationality or ethnicity.

The nature of this book requires generalisations, but the author acknowledges that “How strongly they resonate in any given Korean household differs from family to family.” Here it describes Korea’s unique type of loving-kindness known as jeong. The explanations of the responsibilities and expectations placed on oldest sons, plus the above descriptions of chaebol structure explained some questions I had about South Korean romance dramas and the infamous 2014 ‘nut rage incident.’

Although this book is light on etiquette, it has some very good tips on drinking around your elders and how to behave around your elders. Elders in this sense means someone older, not necessarily elderly. I could have used an explanation of how to determine someone’s age so you know how to pour drinks or what phrases to use. Is it polite to ask a woman her age? On a similar note, the book includes a section on K Beauty, with Top Korean Skincare tips (Slap your face!) and Secrets for a Healthy Life.

I was unfamiliar with the concept of emotional intelligence referred to as ‘nunchi.’ “In a modern age of health enthusiasts obsessed by self-awareness and mindfulness of the inner self, nunchi is an awareness of all things outward, including the external self and how you fit into the surrounding situation.” I’d like to read more about this subject as the ability to ‘read a room’ doesn’t exist solely in Korea, but here it’s presented as being a unique national trait based on non-verbal cues.

I especially loved the section on Korean homes and the different perceptions of status. “Owning a swanky apartment or spacious home in an urban setting is seen more as living the dream in Korean society, than owning a house in the countryside, as many urban-dwellers in Western societies might aspire to achieve.” It also introduces the concept of a officetel, which seems to be something like a studio apartment with a workspace originally stemming from legally ambiguous repurposed office space into housing stock.

How to Live Korean is an ideal gift for armchair travellers and K-pop enthusiasts. Due to its useful summaries of art, hobbies, film and music, it’s a wonderful jumping off point into exploring other areas of Korean culture.

This book was provided by the publisher for review.

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Korean culture has been spreading its wings well beyond Korea in recent years. From the Oscar winning film Parasite to Kpop sensations BTS, Korea has well and truely been put onto the world map. This international recognition will undoubtedly spark an interest into not just Korea film and music, but into Korea as a country. That is where How To Live Korean comes in the bridge the gap.

No matter where your interest in Korea originated from, How To Live Korean will undoubtedly give you more of what drew you to the country in the first place. A multitude of aspect of Korean life are explored, from why Koreans eat primarily a vegetable-based diet to where they love to travel to to go on holiday.

Not only are you get to see what Korea is like from a Koreans perspective, you also get a selection of recipes for you to bring Korea into your home. From Kimchee Jjigae to Oheemoochim, a few easy to follow recipes are provided for your tastebuds.

If you are interested in travelling to Korea when you are able to, then How To Live Korean is a great place to start.

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This was really fun since I am hugely fascinated by Korean culture, learning the language and planning (whenever it may be possible) to return to Korea after a long absence to show my family around.

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I really enjoyed learning about SouthKorea from this lovely book.Beautiful illustrations and photography.A look at Korean history traditions schools food.Loved traveling and taking a tour of the country while sitting in my home.#netgalley #how to live Korean.

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It's of course slightly silly that the author claims to speak for all Koreans, but still, this little book is a fun, informative and beautifully designed introduction to (mainly South) Korea. Illustrated with some paintings and many photographs, the text gives an overview of Korean history, geography, politics, popular travel destinations, famous Koreans, culinary delights, society, social norms and customs as well as phenomena like K-Pop and K-Beauty. The outcome is entertaining and informative, although, due to the text's brevity, people who aim to really learn about the country in all its diversity and nuance need to pick up non-fiction books devoted to singular aspects Soo Kim only has the time and space to hint at.

Full disclosure: I can't possibly judge whether the viewpoints presented in the book are correct, but the text certainly motivated me even more to visit South Korea. For people who want to spend two hours immersing themselves in short texts and images of Korea, this light read is just right.

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How to Live Korean was a really enjoyable read from start to finish. The book covers everything from overviews of Korean history and food to commentary on Korean family values and culture, as well as a look at the country's regions and attractions. Some of the information I knew, but some was new to me, such as why you shouldn't buy shoes for your significant other! I started teaching myself Korean earlier this year, shortly after becoming addicted to watching all the K-dramas on Netflix, and I am keen to learn more about the country and its people. This book certainly fed into my interest and I liked it so much I plan to get a copy to keep on my bookshelf.

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