What a delight to return for a third time to the world of Lucy Barton, the central character from “My Name is Lucy Barton” and “Anything is Possible.” This time we learn more about her first husband William, who was looking after their two small daughters while Lucy was in hospital in the first book, and from whom she was divorced in the second.. Here he becomes a fully rounded person through a series of anecdotes and vignettes from his life, and we learn about his relationship with his mother and the other women in his life, and how he remains close to Lucy through all their life changes and into older age. This also adds more to the story of Lucy, who despite an upbringing of neglect, lack of love and humiliatingly grinding poverty, William wanted to marry because when he met her she was “filled with joy.” As always, Strout builds up a rich and absorbing portrayal of a series of people with all their foibles, weaknesses and opinions, with even the minor characters seen in perfect little cameos. I would love to read more about Lucy, her second husband David and her daughters, so I hope this will not be her last appearance, but she will remain both unforgettable and one of my favourite characters in literature.

I start by saying that I did not read My Name is Lucy Barton (yet). However, I feel that did not make a difference in the enjoyment of this book. When needed, the author makes small shout outs to what was written in the previous book, allowing the reader to understand everything that is going on.

Lucy Barton is our narrator, and in this book she is telling us the story of her first husband, William, and lets us see the dynamic of their relationship many years after the marriage has ended. William has several life changing events at the same time, and Lucy is there to help him through them.

I really enjoyed this book, especially the way it was written, as if we are reading a transcript of Lucy's thoughts. It is difficult to pull it off and not turn it into something that is difficult to follow and understand, so I was really impressed with this book.

Recommend to all of those that have read My Name is Lucy Barton, and to all of those who just want to read a good and insightful book.

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The third book from Elizabeth Strout, while I thoroughly enjoyed this book, it did take me a while to get into it. It is an interesting and intriguing read about Lucy who is widowed, she reconnects with her ex and friends she has made.

Absolutely wonderful. Had never read Elizabeth Strout before - partly put off by the covers which I thought looked rather whimsical. My mistake as I loved it. Very much in the Richard Ford area but with more kindness and variety.

A third book about the wonderful Lucy Barton and I could not wait to read it. Once I started I could not stop and read the whole book in one afternoon.

William is Lucy's first husband and the father of her two grown up daughters. In this book she is in her sixties and has recently lost her second husband. She still has a friendly relationship with William and they tend to lean on each other in times of need. Her character is that of an author and a born story teller and Oh William! is a gorgeous rambling sequence of Lucy's memories and thoughts about her origins, her marriages and her daughters.

Elizabeth Strout is a very skilful writer and this book reads rather like a genuine memoir. Lucy is a very damaged character and it becomes clear that her desperate childhood situation affected her relationships throughout her whole life, including that with William. It was sad to see that even successfully raising two daughters and becoming a famous author did not give her a feeling of self worth.

This is not a sad book though. There are many beautiful moments and some really funny ones. The passage where Lucy tells William he looks like a dork (her word) because his trousers are too short is hilarious but there are lots of gently humorous moments too. By the end both Lucy and William have discovered many things about themselves and about the years they spent together.

This is a lovely book, a totally enjoyable read and easily worth five full stars.

I really enjoy Elizabeth Strout’s writing and the way she draws us in so deeply into character’s innermost thoughts as well as their everyday lives, which are not extraordinary. I have never warmed to Lucy the way I have with other characters, but I don’t think this is necessary to enjoy or take something positive from this book. Her writing is as flawless as ever and this makes for a good read.

This is the sequel to Lucy Barton. It is typical of Strout's style, plain prose but which somehow seems mysterious. It very much reminds me of Sally Rooney's style in that way. This tells the story of Barton, decades after the first book. She is widowed and tells the story of her ex-husband, William and his discovery of his past. This is beautifully pitched and wonderfully realised.

I love Elizabeth Strout's novels so I was very pleased that this lived up to my high expectations! There are many interweaving stories about the history of Lucy and William's relationship and they are all provided in luscious detail. Although there's a lot of detail I enjoyed this and I think it's a strength of Strout's writing.

Loved Strouts previous novels…….however this is less of a full novel and more a rambling about a previous husband. It was a very strange book. I did finish it in order to see if I’d missed the plot. Wouldn’t recommend unlike her other books.

Elizabeth Strout Oh William! Viking (Penguin Random House)2021.

Thank you, Net Galley for this uncorrected proof copy for review.

My first, but certainly not last, novel from this talented writer. I am glad to see that Lucy Barton’s story has been partially written, as here in Oh William! she appears as William’s former wife (he was her first husband) and I would like to know more of the woman who took his last name but relinquished it gladly after eleven years. Who is this woman who became William’s wife, took his name despite her friend’s interrogation, said she did not care about being a feminist, wanting so much to be free of herself, and yet, after William’s mother dies becomes Lucy Barton again? Lucy Barton for the remaining nine years of their marriage? Effected the change almost by chance when she had her driver’s license renewed? Then, took it so seriously she bothered with court documents to do so? Left William, after twenty years of marriage but grieved over their separation? Is concerned about the pain for herself and their two daughters, but remains resolutely apart?

And now, she and William are having coffee together. This is a feature of William’s life, as is the gentle morning wakening, being greeted later by his second wife, Estelle, and listening to their chatty daughter, Bridget as they breakfast together at a round table in their spacious apartment.

The story moves gently from past to present; from comical to sad; from shaded, drifting imagery to realistic, almost sharp-edged events. Almost two years ago they have met and, surprisingly on this occasion William greets Lucy’s pleasantry with a phrase that alerts her to a change in his usual self-satisfied existence. William appeals for her help in dealing with his night fears. They are located around his mother, Germany and his father, and death.

Throughout the encounter descriptions of William’s demeanour, dress, relationships with one of his daughters, and Lucy and William’s past travel to Germany meander. Or they seem to. This first description of the relationship between William and Lucy sets the pattern for the way the narrative evolves, allowing the reader into their personalities, their relationships with other characters, and with their environment. Each diversion has a point, makes an impact on the overall narrative, and contributes to the elegant layering of the story that unfolds as William and Lucy’s relationship past and present becomes clear.

Immersion in Oh William! is at times uncomfortable as slights suffered by Lucy at his hands are touched upon, then allowed to drift away. Lucy recognises the challenges but does not want to engage with them; she draws attention to her feelings but diverts herself and readers by adding another layer of the story. Immersion in Oh William! can also be an utter delight. I felt both as I read and look forward to similar experiences in Elizabeth Strout’s other novels.

A strange rambling story which made me feel as tho I was listening to the reminiscences of Lucy and William rather than reading a plotted novel. Well written as all Elizabeth Strout’s novels are, this seemed to have very little purpose.

This is the third book in Elizabeth Strout's Amgash series, after My Name Is Lucy Barton and Anything Is Possible. An accomplished author, now in her sixties, Lucy is the central character once again. These days she's living in New York city and mourning the loss of her second husband David, a cellist. But the novel is mostly concerned with William, her first husband, with whom she retains a complicated relationship.

Lucy and William have two adult daughters and remain on amicable terms. In fact, they often call each other and meet up for advice, which William's new partner Estelle doesn't seem to have a problem with. Lucy still has some feelings for William but she also thinks back to the problems they had during their marriage, which caused her to leave him.

Over the course of a few days, William receives some shocking news. For one thing, it turns out he has a half-sister that he never knew about. He decides to travel to Maine to see if he can make contact with her, and asks Lucy to join him. The journey stirs old memories - Lucy remembers why she fell in love with him, but she also recalls all the ways in which he infuriated her.

The story is told in conversational style, which I'm not all that keen on in this instance. It consists mostly of Lucy telling anecdotes from her childhood and about her adult relationships, which makes it rather one-sided and doesn't have the same moments of insight or perception that a more balanced book like Olive Kitteridge has, for example. However, it does examine subjects like old age and marriage in a nuanced manner. And I admired the sensitive way it addresses childhood trauma - Lucy still bears the scars of her difficult, poverty-stricken upbringing, but she has learned to live with it. Overall, the book feels like catching up with an old friend, listening to her tell you about her joys and woes. And though she has some sad stories to tell, it is a pleasure to be back in Lucy Barton's company once again.

Favourite Quotes:
"Grief is such a— oh, it is such a solitary thing; this is the terror of it, I think. It is like sliding down the outside of a really long glass building while nobody sees you."

"People are lonely, is my point here. Many people can’t say to those they know well what it is they feel they might want to say."

"As we drove I suddenly had a visceral memory of what a hideous thing marriage was for me at times those years with William: a familiarity so dense it filled up the room, your throat almost clogged with knowledge of the other so that it seemed to practically press into your nostrils— the odor of the other’s thoughts, the self-consciousness of every spoken word, the slight flicker of an eyebrow slightly raised, the barely perceptible tilting of the chin; no one but the other would know what it meant; but you could not be free living like that, not ever. Intimacy became a ghastly thing."

It took me a little while to get into this book but once the story unfolded I was intrigued. Lucy Barton who was recently widowed reconnects with her former husband and reflects on their earlier life together. It was interesting to read about her life and the friends they made along the way. I enjoyed this book.

This book is absolutely delightful. I had read the previous book about Lucy Barton, but this is also a stand alone novel. Telling the story of Lucy’s relationship with her ex husband and adult daughters, it makes a thought provoking read.

Strout here explores the relationship between Lucy Barton (and it helps if you have read the previous novel, though this does stand alone nonetheless) and her ex husband William, who, entering old age, approaches her for help.

Their relationship is loving and tender. The writing tells something about our shared humanity and ongoing love and tenderness that survives even a difficult marriage.

Another great book by Elizabeth Strout. A unique voice which looks at relationships especially otherness where Lucy Barton looks at how her upbringing affects relationships with her ex husband and her children.

Oh I loved this!

A painstakingly careful and thoughtful inspection of the lies we tell ourselves and others, and the mythologies we build around both to be able to move forward in the world, this is an acutely accurate and deeply sympathetic portrait of humanity and grief.

Everyone is flawed. Everyone one is contradictory. Everyone is merciful in their own - sometimes harmful - way. Because everyone is.

Exceptional.

I loved the way this book was written, (as though you were having a chat with someone and they were telling you about themselves), but I found the story a bit vague. I found William an unlikeable character and the narrator a bit weak. If you want a book that's a snapshot into people's lives, then this is the book for you. Well written and intresting.

I love Elizabeth Strout and I loved My Name is Lucy Barton, but I enjoyed this a little less than everything else I’ve read by her and felt faintly disappointed. ⁣
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This is about Lucy Barton’s relationship with her ex-husband William. The two remain on friendly terms and after his 70th birthday and the death of her second husband, he seeks Lucy’s help as he confronts a series of revelations about his late mother. There is real tenderness in her portrayal of the relationship between William and Lucy, the gentleness and generosity of their relationship against the history of their tumultuous marriage - even after all this time a form of love that never really fades away. As always, Strout is wonderfully insightful with an ability to capture the universal peculiarities of human feeling. In the middle of rural Maine, Lucy suddenly has a deep sense of belonging to this place she has never been to, an inexplicable sense that ‘these are my people’. ⁣
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Yet there was something about this book that felt less moving than her other novels. Lucy’s neuroticism felt slightly grating in this novel, and makes her significantly less sympathetic than a character like Olive Kitteridge. William was also a little unbearable, between his self-absorbed womanising, delicate male ego and the coddling he nonetheless expected from his ex wife. ⁣
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Oh dear! My second try with Elizabeth Strout and my second failure, I'm afraid. I just can't seem to connect to this writing style, somehow. It's clear and transparent but where I think I'm supposed to feel emotional pain and wryness, I just feel... nothing. It's probably me, not the book - sorry!