I loved this book - and I was hoping for nothing less, as Holly Bourne is one of my favourite authors. A baby shower that goes horribly wrong, with a great set of characters, all imperfect in their own ways, and with different experiences of motherhood. A really well-written account of what life can be like for women in their thirties. Would highly recommend.

I absolutely adored this novel. It's witty, tense, and often deeply moving. So Thrilled for You charts the friendship of four women throughout one incredibly stressful day: a baby shower. Each woman has a different relationship to motherhood (there's the pregnant friend, the friend who's postpartum depression is destroying her, the friend who never wants children, and the friend who desperately wants children but can't conceive). Yet the women are so much more than mothers or mothers-to-be, as their friendship is tested and explored through flashbacks to the past. Each character is so vivid and real that I felt like I really knew them. I couldn't put this down. Thank you NetGalley for the advanced copy! I'll be recommending it to everyone.

Holly Bourne's latest is another juicy page turner about a group of women who've been friends since college. Now they're going off and starting families of their own (or not) and new tensions and old resentments surface at a baby shower.

Bourne is great at writing contemporaries about women and complex relationships, yet this is the first that reads a bit like a thriller. The story moves between police interview transcripts in the present and the build-up to the fire that ended the baby shower from hell. It was great (and unusual) to see a book successfully juggle four different perspectives.

It's a very compelling story, mostly because the characters are so well-drawn. Nicki, Lauren, Steffi and Charlotte are each easy to sympathise with when you're reading their POV, but it is also easy to see how you could resent them when seen from another's perspective. Bourne's characterization was so strong you could appreciate it from all sides. This is true of Charlotte, especially, who I felt sorry for at the same time as I felt sorry for all those having to deal with her.

I wasn't at all surprised to learn Bourne is a new mum herself as she so perfectly describes the horror and anxiety so many new mothers deal with, including breastfeeding nightmares, useless husbands and the feeling that your whole life and identity has been taken from you.

Alongside this, she also portrays the heartache of being unable to get pregnant and the frustrations of being a woman who doesn't want kids. She handles all these perspectives with empathy and respect.

I was excited to see how it would all play out, though I'm not totally convinced by the last chapter.

This book surprised me. It gave a raw, unfiltered view of four women at different stages in their lives: the new mother, the expecting parent, the career driven single girl and a girl battling infertility and how this impacts their relationship with one another over the course of a day. I would highly recommend it

ANOTHER great hit by Holly Bourne! I enjoyed this one so much and found its topic so interesting and relevant. I found myself intrigued by the ending, wasn't expecting it and it was very important to me to find compassion and understanding for each one of the characters, even though I didn't agree with some of their decissions. Also, loved Charlotte to the core!

This book starts with an incident at a baby shower and the police interviewing the main four friends there, we then go back to the day each time someone is interviewed getting to know their lives and personalities, each one carrying lies from their friends putting on a pretense that all is okay but as the day goes on the cracks start to show.
As to how the fire started it's the only negative I had about the book as was too unrealistic and left me a bit disappointed.

So Thrilled For You is a well written and thought provoking read. It follows four friends as they attend a baby shower which ultimately goes wrong and ends in a large fire. The book shifts through the perspective of four friends as they each deal with their own problems, miscommunications and misunderstandings throughout the day of the baby shower as we unravel the events that led to the fire. The different perspectives does a really good job of examining the different experiences the women are going through and highlights the expectations that women face. Holly Bourne does a brilliant job not shying away from some difficult content and it makes for some difficult and uncomfortable reading at times but is very thought provoking. Definitely check the trigger warnings before picking this up! The characters are not all likeable and your levels of sympathy change as we delve deeper into each of their backstory and decision making but I think this also makes them feel real and more relatable even if you don't like them. Overall its a really interesting character driven book with thought provoking perspectives. The addition of the whodunit storyline surrounding the fire adds a layer of mystery and intrigue that kept me gripped and unable to put the book down.

This was another amazing read that I absolutely ran through. Full of beautiful writing that touches you if you are single, in a couple or a mum. Will stay with me for a while

Four friends (one with a young child, one heavily pregnant, one who wants a child, and one who is happily childless) attend a a baby shower where one is the organiser and one is the focus. Sounds like a nice premise for a character-driven story about friendship, right? But add a gender reveal firework gone wrong, burning down the venue and setting fire to the nearby surroundings, and this becomes a whodunit.

Quite a few years ago, I saw Holly Bourne speak at a women's literary festival. At the time, she was a widely acclaimed young adult author. She spoke about her passion for gender equality and mental health. I was surprised and intrigued when, a few years later, I saw that she had begun writing contemporary adult fiction. I've read all three of her previous adult novels ('How Do You Like Me Now?', 'Pretending' and 'Girl Friends) and found them all very engaging and readable.

However, with 'So Thrilled For You' she has really upped her game. The absolute searing honesty of how she approaches motherhood, dating and friendship is almost painful. It's pretty tricky juggling four point of view characters (the last novel I saw execute this so well was 'The Friend' by Dorothy Koomson) but she did this with panache. She draws you right into this tight friendship group, informally named 'Little Women', and explores the dynamics in a very realistic way. I was out with a friend the day I started reading this book and I still managed to finish it all within 8 hours, reading it frantically on public transport and then in bed when I got home.

Given the continuing upwards trajectory of the calibre of Bourne's books, I'm very excited to see where her next novel will take us.

Thank you so much to Netgalley and Hodder & Stoughton for the ARC!

Four extremely annoying women.

I really couldn't warm to any of them

I've no idea what happened to them, because I didn't make it to the end

I absolutely loved this book! Through its use of multiple POVs of Lauren, Steffi, Charlotte and Nicki, the story provides an emotional insight into the impact of motherhood and female friendships in the past and present, all through the setting of a disastrous baby shower!

This book is so funny and entertaining, but at times the main thing that struck me whilst reading this book was the pervasive anxiety imbued in every woman’s POV. The strain of motherhood, infertility and the decision not to have children are all explored equally and fully in a realistic way that does not glamourise or hyperbolise the experiences these characters have of this time in their lives. Overall, I really enjoyed this book and would definitely recommend it!

Thank you to NetGalley and the Publisher for approving my request to review this book.

I received an advanced reading copy of this book in exchange for an honest review, thank you to NetGalley, Hodder & Stoughton, and the author Holly Bourne.
I found this story incredibly stressful, but gripping nonetheless. It was well written but I wouldn't really recommend it if you're looking to relax and rewind before bed. It's essentially every intrusive or anxious thought possible communicated through the four main characters.
For that reason, I wish I hadn't read it, but can appreciate the writing. 3 stars.

Love a Holly Bourne book and this one did not disappoint. Forever friends since meeting at university aged 19, now 32 and very different.
You will recognise part of yourself and your friends in each of the central female characters.
Choices that we all make and the consequences they create.. The brilliant ending left me astounded.

Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for my copy of this book.

Four different women, best friends since university, come together to celebrate Nicki’s baby shower. Lauren brings her 9 month old and is severely sleep deprived. Steffi is on the brink of the biggest deal of her career and doesn’t want kids. Charlotte is desperate for a baby, but struggling to convince, pours all her energy into organising the baby shower. When a fire starts everyone is a suspect.

Wow wow wow! I have that devoured this. I lived it so much to the point I haven’t been able to put it down!

The characters are so relatable. Their experiences so true to life. The friendship so powerful, but filled with life getting in the way. I couldn’t have guessed the ending. I loved the epilogue. I want to read it again it was just so good.

Another crowd pleaser from Holly Bourne! The usual smart wit and clever prose. An easy read and one the reader can empathise with.

Thank you to Netgalley & the publisher for the ARC in exchange for a fair and honest review.

Unfortunately this just didn’t do it for me. The writing style was a bit juvenile and I couldn’t bring myself to care about the characters. As someone with no children, and no friends with children, it wasn’t all that relatable to me which probably contributed to my being unable to connect with the characters.

Four best friends come together for a baby shower which doesn't go well. A page turning thriller, it was so easy to get gripped by it. Great twist at the end

Four best friends - Charlotte, Nikki, Lauren & Steffi, are getting together for the first time in a while for Nikki's baby shower. Charlotte has obsessively organised the event to keep her mind off her own fertility issues, Lauren is struggling with her own 9-month old son Woody, Steffi has made it well-known she doesn't want children and Nikki is hoping that this baby will help get her marriage back on track.

Starting with the dramatic events at the end of the baby shower, the story changes POV between the main characters, shows the build up to the event as well as when the girls were all at university together, giving a very well-rounded and fleshed out story. With very realistic characters and friend group, as well as some brutal truths about infertility, pregnancy and early parenthood, this gave a raw and honest look at this time of life.

I ADORED this book. Even though my baby days are over and nothing but I distant memory.
All the characters were so well written and they actually felt like real people. Oh Lauren, I related to Lauren so well. Nicki, Steffi and Charlotte were all drawn out in their own ways. I could also heavily, heavily relate to Charlotte the way she was portrayed.
If the author, Holly reads this, then I want her to know that she’s written a barn stormer of a book. I can only sing its praises. I was enraptured from the beginning, I even resented going to bed and having to go to sleep when all I really wanted to do was read on and on.
I’m sad it’s ended , but thank you so much for the opportunity. #NetGalley #SoThrilledForYou #HollyBourne

I LOVED this book. As a mother just a little over a year out of the newborn stage, I CACKLED at some of the traumatic Lauren bits. But all the characters are just so relatable no matter what your choices or where you're at in your own life. I felt like this book was brilliant at representing women friendships and that weird sense of constantly comparing ourselves to each other and feeling so lost and messy while trying to put on a brave face for others. Also, 12/10 for Seth in this one. The fantasy of a nice solid emotionally stable finance bro really is what our fiction dreams are made of. Negative points for Matt (you know what you did). I don't think there's been a book in recent memory that I have devoured so quickly. It had such complex characters while being so accessibly written. The story was easy to follow despite switching perspectives and jumping back and forth between past and present. This book made me call up my best friends and just remind them how much I love them and how proud I am of them and how grateful I am to experience life at the same time as them.