I really didn’t know what to expect from this book but I thought it would be a bit of fluffy fun. How wrong was I! The story grabs you from the start and doesn’t let go at all. Just when you think you’ve got it all sorted, the story changes and the reader is thrust into a maelstrom of emotions. As a mother I totally get the motivation and compelling need to defend your child but at the same time as a reader I’m shouting ‘don’t do it’. Totally engaging and realistic. Sarah Hartman has somehow got under my skin and I’m already looking forward to her next book.

It's a mixed bag this book, I felt it was a bit off the cuff, but it's what made it! A mother that would do anything to protect her son, but she's a mess herself. She was very irritating, but funny too. Lots of eye rolls.

Thank you to the author, publisher and netgalley for an e-arc in exchange for an honest review.

I really enjoyed this book! It’s always interesting to have a dislikable main protagonist in a novel. It has certainly made me rethink the various school and parent politics that go on.

I really enjoyed this. The book is enhanced by its dislikable narrator, who doesn’t want to hear from someone who really messes up sometimes.

This was a fast read and I think this would be a very good book for moms, it seems an obvious choice but I think they will get a lot out of this book that mixes thriller with PTA politics.

It's no wonder all the other mums hate her. Don't think she liked herself much either.

Flo is very selfish but will do anything to protect her son, a witty yet dark read which I enjoyed

This is a funny and slightly dark account from the viewpoint of mum of a private school pupil who does everything she can to protect her son when he is implicated in the disappearance of his classmate and nemesis Alfie.

Florence is a failed ex- girlband member, struggling to make ends meet via her sister's helium balon arch business, whilst dealing with her arrogant ex and keeping up with the snooty school mums.

I'm not sure that I really warmed.to Florence as her character was a little annoying and a tad entitled. Inalso felt a bit uncomfortable with some of her decisions and the fact that she repeatedly leaves her ten year old.home alone overnight for a bunk up! However, the storyline kept me on my toes and kept me guessing until the end!

If you like likeable characters in your books, this book is not for you. Did I enjoy this wild ride. Yes. Yes I did.

I did quite like this but everyone in it was terrible. There were quite a few plot holes too and I'm not sure I quite understood the end of it

This book could have easily been about 100 pages shorter and still gotten the job done. The blurb on the back made it sound way more exciting than it actually was, but by the time I got to the end, I honestly didn’t even care if they found the missing child or not. Flo was an incredibly annoying character, and maybe I just couldn’t relate—because there’s no way I’d go to extreme lengths to protect my child if I thought they were involved in a murder or someone’s disappearance. Some things cross a line, and I wouldn’t be covering for that.

It’s one of those books where I kept hoping it would pick up, but it never really did. Definitely a letdown considering how promising it sounded.

I'm a little surprised by how many people found this to be a funny book. For me it felt like an uncomfortable 'journey' story...and Flo is a hot mess. It is no wonder the other mothers hate her. I hated her. What the hell was up with her? Yes, she'd crashed out of her girl band. Yes, her boyfriend was very bad. But when we meet her in the book her son is 10 years old and she is still barely functioning as a human being, let alone a mother. She loves her son, but she doesn't seem to understand him at all. How have social services not been involved? I didn't find her funny, she was infuriating!
I ended up having to read this only in the daytime, because it felt like some kind of horror thriller to me, and reading it before bed made me so anxious! Without giving any spoilers, Flo acts in ways that are not just morally fluid, they are downright illegal, and I didn't like her enough to forgive her.
All of this is not to say I wasn't caught up in the story, because I was, and I still wanted to know what would happen! I liked her new friend Jenny, and I could have done with a bit more Jenny, a bit less Flo to be honest. I had guessed part of what was going on, but not what had happened to Alfie. I sort of suspended belief by the end, because it all wraps up in a bit of a mad way (really?! I kept saying in my head as I read) and had Flo actually learned anything from her journey? I don't know. It was certainly a rollercoaster read!

I can see All the Other Mothers Hate Me by Sarah Harman being a hit and could also see it as being something that would be popular as a televised version.

This was great, the twists and turns kept me reading, and I loved the dry humour and sarcasm 👌 Florence really is an annoying yet loveable chaos muppet 😂 The plot is wild, but highlights how far a mother would go for her child. Highly recommend picking this up, you'll not be disappointed!

Thanks to Net Galley and 4th Estate for sharing this digital ARC with me.

This was a lot of fun. Lots of neat little twists, but it was the characterisation that really did it for me. The lead character is flawed but likeable and the depiction of a child with autism was refreshingly realistic without being stereotypical. In fact, if you weren't on the spectrum or were close to someone who was, you might not even notice that that's what those little quirks added up to.

I wasn't expecting this to be as good as it was, so it's a rare five star read for me.

Thanks to NetGalley for the ARC without obligation.

Unfortunately I wasn't really a fan of the character voice and writing style for this one. I thought the author was trying a little too hard to be funny and kooky, and as a result I just didn't find it all that amusing or interesting. Its definitely just a personal preference, because objectively the writing is fine, it was a quick read, but just not for me.

Fast paced, but the laughs didn't land for me.

At first I thought I was reading a script for Motherland but the book does go off in a different direction from the yummy mummies bullies club! As an ex girl band member and general bad penny, the protagonist tries hard to fit in with the posh school parents.
Disaster happens and it all gets more interesting from this point as she tries to work out what happened to the rich little boy who goes missing on a trip.
It’s a decent read and the plot holds your interest. Even though she isn’t the most likeable of characters, you kind of warm to her in the end.

All The Other Mothers Hate Me is about a mum, Florence, and her son, Dylan. One of Dylan’s classmates at his private school, Alfie, goes missing on a school trip.

I found it hard to warm to Florence. She comes across as fairly self involved, unlikeable, and difficult. She was previously in a girl band, and does some fairly questionable things throughout the book. It felt like there was quite a big focus on what other characters wore, things that she bought or owned, and social status. I don’t read mystery books often, so I was intrigued by this; but there wasn’t quite as much focus on the core aspect of Alfie’s disappearance as I had thought there would be.

With thanks to 4th Estate and William Collins for the ARC.

‘All the Other Mothers Hate Me’ by Sarah Harman is a fast-paced thriller that immediately grabs your attention and doesn't let go. From the first page, the story pulls you in with its brisk, short chapters that make you want to read just a little longer, keeping the suspense high throughout.

The protagonist, Florence, is a wonderfully messy character who is both frustrating and endearing. As a single mother trying to protect her child, Florence's efforts to uncover the truth behind a missing person's case — despite her lack of investigative skills — make for an engaging and unpredictable journey. Her relationship with another outcast mother at the school provides a delightful, if sometimes awkward, dynamic. Their bumbling attempts at solving the mystery are both humorous and surprisingly effective, adding a layer of charm to the story.

What stands out is not only the thrilling plot but also the depth of character development. Florence’s unwavering love for her child and her growth throughout the book add emotional weight, making this more than just a mystery. The twists, while somewhat foreshadowed, are executed expertly and keep the reader guessing until the very end.

This book is a great pick for anyone who enjoys messy, complex characters, intriguing mysteries, and a thrilling, unpredictable ride. If you’re a fan of stories where the characters’ relationships drive the plot, ‘All the Other Mothers Hate Me’ is definitely worth a read.

Thanks to NetGalley for the arc.

I whizzed through this novel! I"ll definitely read more of Sarah Harman. Florence is very dislikable but charming at once, and her determination made me like her more.

Florence is a ex girl band singer and a mother to ten year old Dylan, penniless and not a good mother and an outsider to the other mothers at the school.
On a school trip Dylan is partnered with Alfie the son of a very rich couple and one of his bullies but Dylan returns without Alfie.
Florence finds Alfie`s bag under Dylan`s bed and with Dylan under suspicion she goes in search of Alfie with Jenny a new mother at the school.
You can`t help but like Florence even though she gets up to things she really shouldn`t while looking after Dylan.
A good twist to the end.
Thanks to Netgalley for the ARC and I give my honest review.

This is a decent literary mystery/thriller. I whizzed through it, it's really easy to read, however I would have enjoyed it more if there was a little more depth to the characters. This would be a good beach/holiday read as it's easy to binge and keep your attention for long periods of time.