Unfortunately I wasn't really a fan of the character voice and writing style for this one. I thought the author was trying a little too hard to be funny and kooky, and as a result I just didn't find it all that amusing or interesting. Its definitely just a personal preference, because objectively the writing is fine, it was a quick read, but just not for me.

Fast paced, but the laughs didn't land for me.

At first I thought I was reading a script for Motherland but the book does go off in a different direction from the yummy mummies bullies club! As an ex girl band member and general bad penny, the protagonist tries hard to fit in with the posh school parents.
Disaster happens and it all gets more interesting from this point as she tries to work out what happened to the rich little boy who goes missing on a trip.
It’s a decent read and the plot holds your interest. Even though she isn’t the most likeable of characters, you kind of warm to her in the end.

All The Other Mothers Hate Me is about a mum, Florence, and her son, Dylan. One of Dylan’s classmates at his private school, Alfie, goes missing on a school trip.

I found it hard to warm to Florence. She comes across as fairly self involved, unlikeable, and difficult. She was previously in a girl band, and does some fairly questionable things throughout the book. It felt like there was quite a big focus on what other characters wore, things that she bought or owned, and social status. I don’t read mystery books often, so I was intrigued by this; but there wasn’t quite as much focus on the core aspect of Alfie’s disappearance as I had thought there would be.

With thanks to 4th Estate and William Collins for the ARC.

‘All the Other Mothers Hate Me’ by Sarah Harman is a fast-paced thriller that immediately grabs your attention and doesn't let go. From the first page, the story pulls you in with its brisk, short chapters that make you want to read just a little longer, keeping the suspense high throughout.

The protagonist, Florence, is a wonderfully messy character who is both frustrating and endearing. As a single mother trying to protect her child, Florence's efforts to uncover the truth behind a missing person's case — despite her lack of investigative skills — make for an engaging and unpredictable journey. Her relationship with another outcast mother at the school provides a delightful, if sometimes awkward, dynamic. Their bumbling attempts at solving the mystery are both humorous and surprisingly effective, adding a layer of charm to the story.

What stands out is not only the thrilling plot but also the depth of character development. Florence’s unwavering love for her child and her growth throughout the book add emotional weight, making this more than just a mystery. The twists, while somewhat foreshadowed, are executed expertly and keep the reader guessing until the very end.

This book is a great pick for anyone who enjoys messy, complex characters, intriguing mysteries, and a thrilling, unpredictable ride. If you’re a fan of stories where the characters’ relationships drive the plot, ‘All the Other Mothers Hate Me’ is definitely worth a read.

Thanks to NetGalley for the arc.

I whizzed through this novel! I"ll definitely read more of Sarah Harman. Florence is very dislikable but charming at once, and her determination made me like her more.

Florence is a ex girl band singer and a mother to ten year old Dylan, penniless and not a good mother and an outsider to the other mothers at the school.
On a school trip Dylan is partnered with Alfie the son of a very rich couple and one of his bullies but Dylan returns without Alfie.
Florence finds Alfie`s bag under Dylan`s bed and with Dylan under suspicion she goes in search of Alfie with Jenny a new mother at the school.
You can`t help but like Florence even though she gets up to things she really shouldn`t while looking after Dylan.
A good twist to the end.
Thanks to Netgalley for the ARC and I give my honest review.

This is a decent literary mystery/thriller. I whizzed through it, it's really easy to read, however I would have enjoyed it more if there was a little more depth to the characters. This would be a good beach/holiday read as it's easy to binge and keep your attention for long periods of time.

I... don't know how to feel about this one. I got through it pretty quickly and it's an okay mystery, it's just nothing really new or surprising. I quite disliked the main character for most of it and the pacing felt a little off to me, but I'm not sure why. Maybe it's the chaotic kind of approach to it? I honestly don't know, I just know I didn't fully vibe with this and can't say I'd recommend it with my whole chest. It would rather be like "Well, if the description calls to you, give it a shot, idk." Do with that what you will.

2.5 stars, I guess.

This book was a fun, light read, perfect for when you want something that doesn't require too much brainpower. It had a bit of a slow start, but once it got going, I was hooked. The story follows Florence, an immature former pop star turned mom, who gets caught up in the mystery of a missing child at her son's school. Florence, along with her new friend Jenny, throws herself into the investigation, mostly as a way to distract from her own son's issues. While Florence can be frustrating, I found myself enjoying her anyway. Her dynamic with Jenny was great, leading to some laugh-out-loud moments and also making me feel for Florence. The mystery itself was well-done and full of surprises. I was willing to overlook any minor flaws because the book was such an enjoyable escape. Plus, it was satisfying to see Florence grow and change throughout the story. If you're looking for a lighthearted mystery with a quirky protagonist, this one's worth checking out.

I found it hard to get into this book at the beginning, but I did stick with it and I'm glad that I did. Florence isn't overly likeable, although she is quite funny. But the overwhelming factor is her protection of Dylan, and that shines through.

I ended up enjoying this one!

Florence is a dysfunctional single mother, Dylan is 10 years old but despite having some learning difficulties appears more adult than his mum. She was difficult to like at the beginning.
When Alfie, heir to multi million pound company, goes missing on school trip after being partnered with his nemesis Dylan, Florence turns PI with another school mum to try to find out what happened to him. This leads to some dodgy decision making on Florence's part.
This book was a fun, entertaining read, as the story progresses, Florence's character evolved, she became the lioness who was going to protect her cub at all costs. I really enjoyed it

How far will a mother go to protect her child? Failed pop star Florence, who is really annoying, will do anything to protect her child and doesn't care who hates her for her.

I enjoyed my first book by Sarah covering a topic that a mother can relate to, within reason, of how much a mother would do when your child needs you the most.

ALL THE OTHER MOTHERS HATE ME BY SARAH HARMAN.
Release date set for the 10th of April 2025.
I thought I'd try a different kinda book so i tried this one and i'm so glad i did.
THE DRY HUMOUR.
This book was a fast easy read for me.
I had a blast reading this.
I will deffo check out this author's other books in the future.

Witty and smart, this would make a great beach read. I didn’t love the protagonist so I found it hard to get into but the plot was intriguing so I’d give it a solid three stars.

Florence is a former girlband star whose career went down the pan when she became a mother.

Her son is studying at a posh school and Florence can’t stand the mothers or their children (especially Alfie Risby).

When Alfie goes missing after failing to return from a school trip, Florence’s son is one of the main suspects and she finds herself drawn into the mystery and decides to investigate what really happened to Alfie so that she can clear her sons name.

This is a very look at the politics of being a mother at the school gates - the characters are very Amandaland-esque so if you like that show you’ll love this.

It’s a brilliantly witty take on motherhood and I raced through it, the underlining mystery of Alfie’s disappearance really pulling the whole book together.

There’s also a great supporting cast of characters who’ll you definitely be able to recognise as women you’ve come into contact with before.

Loved it.

Florence isn’t your typical school-gate mum.

Originally from America, she now lives in London with her ten-year-old son, Dylan, who attends an elite private boys' school - paid for by his father.

Once the lead singer of a girl band, Florence was publicly ousted due to a “little misunderstanding” and has since drifted through life, filling her days with reality TV, manicures, and the occasional bout of shoplifting.

Needless to say, she doesn’t exactly blend in with the glamorous, socially polished mothers at the school gates. In fact, thanks to yet another “misunderstanding,” they all seem to despise her.

But when one of Dylan’s classmates, Alfie Risby, goes missing on a school trip and Dylan was the last person to see him Florence’s world is upended.

Finding Alfie’s backpack in Dylan’s possession only raises more questions, especially since Alfie was known to bully Dylan. Could her socially awkward but angelic son be involved?

Determined to prove Dylan’s innocence, Florence takes matters into her own hands, playing detective with the help of a new school mum and her only friend.

Florence is not an immediately likeable protagonist - she’s chaotic, selfish, and questionably irresponsible, especially as a parent.

However, beneath her brash and flawed exterior lies a fiercely devoted mother, vulnerable and lonely, who ultimately worms her way under your skin.

Her journey from outcast to amateur sleuth is both wildly entertaining and unexpectedly touching.

All the Other Mothers Hate Me is the perfect escape read, offering a mix of humour, intrigue, and emotional depth.

It captures the unspoken social hierarchies of school-gate politics in a way that will resonate with many parents, particularly those who have ever felt like outsiders.

While Florence’s parenting choices may leave readers raising an eyebrow (or two), her unwavering love for Dylan is never in doubt.

Funny, ridiculous, and surprisingly moving, this book is an enjoyable, page-turning read - especially for those who appreciate flawed but endearing heroines.

With thanks to NetGalley and the publishers for an ARC in exchange for an honest read.

This book was so witty. The author did a fabulous job at bringing humour to what is a serious situation.

Okay, so let's be real it's no surprise All The Other Mothers disliked Florence. She's awful lol but I actually quite liked her. Her decision making was downright terrible, she's not the most reliable of people and heck some may say she's a terrible mother however through the book she changes and you can see how much she loved her son Dylan.

I the story was full of suspenseful moments, and I didn't actually guess how it would pan out, which is always refreshing.

I'd love to know if Florence is going to get a sequal, I think there is huge potential for small series here.

Thank you to the author, publisher, and Netgalley for providing me with a digital copy.

I was hoping this would be a 5 star read, unfortunately it didn't turn out to be for me!

Florence, a mum all the other school mums seem to hate, takes it upon herself to go private detective when a boy from her son's class goes missing.

I get that this is meant to be a humourous mum on the school run type of mystery, and it was funny in places and entertaining to read. But why do these main character mums always have to have a drink problem or neglect their children and make bad decisions in the process? Maybe I'm reading the wrong books!

Florence teams up with another mum, Jenny, to start solving Alfie's disappearance, mainly to get her own son Dylan off the potential hook. It frustrated me why she just didn't talk to Dylan properly. Florence is a total mess of a person, and the book isn't sharp and witty enough to make her into a snarky loveable mess, she's just a mess. She wants to investigate Alfie's disappearance but then spends most days sitting on her sofa watching reality TV.

I just felt like the book didn't work that well. The characters didn't feel believable and Florence was annoying. Stop leaving your 10 year old at home aloneso you can go out drinking! Who does that!?

Such a fun caper! I love a fun look at the yummy mummy world and someone who is sort of on the outskirts of it get to have their day in the sun except it takes a bit of a journey to get there! It’s fun to see how our MC solves this mystery to clear her name and take them down once and for all

This book was truly full of twists and turns, and I had an absolute blinder reading along and attempting to puzzle together the pieces. Although this was a 'detective novel' very loosely, I found it super engaging and didn't want to put it down.
There were so many narrative strands, all intertwining with one another and that helped the book to explore such a unique and captivating narrative. The humour woven throughout was fantastic and really added to the dynamic of the novel.
I honestly had so much fun reading this book and I spent a lot of time after finishing it sat thinking about it. What a breath of fresh air!