It was a good book with strong themes. Definitely an emotional roller-coaster. I've recommended it to a few friends and family whom I think will enjoy it. But don't think I will re-read it.

Adopting Grace
by Anna Jinja
Genre: Women's Fiction
Pages: 334
Published: Feb, 2025
Rating: 2.5/5


I chose this novel for two reasons:

1. Author:

Like the protagonist of the novel, the author, Anna Jinja was adopted from South Korea and grew up in Iowa. Given the description of the novel and being an own voice story, I expected deep exploration of identity and belongingness in Adopting Grace.

2. Description:

The description of the book talks about Grace's struggle as a mother, wife and adoptee, and the themes mentioned for it are humour, satire, multicultural interests, parenting and families.

All things considered, my expectation from Adopting Grace was an in-depth exploration of the above themes, told with humour and satire.

What I didn't expect was a light hearted drama, almost a romcom women's fiction kind. Not that I don't enjoy a good chick-lit (I still use the term and think it's as respectful a genre as any other!), but this was not at all my expectations from Adopting Grace, given its books description and theme tags.

But though not happy about the wrong expectations set, I shift my mood and dig into the novel with an open heart. The writing style is light, breezy and captivating, the characters draw you in, and soon I am in the heart of a humourous family drama, with Grace juggling to raise her kids, win back her husband, forgive her mother, avoid being too friendly with her husband's girlfriend and hate the panda in the neighbour's lawn.

But even as a light drama, ultimately Adopting Grace disappoints me because:

1. Grace's adoption issue was never explored below the surface. This being an own voice novel, I expected a lot in this front. Some crumbs are thrown here and there, but they are scattered haywire and do not line up to lead anywhere.

2. Mary Ann's arc took up a lot of space in the novel. It's a touching arc. But absence of Mary Ann's arc would not have affected the plot of Adopting Grace even one bit, and I cannot help but wonder if it was used just as a filler. This is not fair to readers.

3. There are too many open ends in the novel: What happenes to Mathew and Nadia, how is the equation between the three kids sorted, why was Emily interested in befriending Grace, what happens to the Panda (since it occupied so much space in the story), etc. Conflicts, confusion and situations are thrown into the plot one after another, and most of them remain without answer after the novel ends. This is also not fair to readers.

4. The cover I see in Goodreads for this novel is in sync with the vibe and genre of the book, but the cover used in Netgalley is quite misleading, it leads you to expect a serious drama.


When I reached the end of the book, all these unresolved 'conflicts' disappointed me a lot, but till then, when I didn't know that I would be left in the lurch at the climax, I had a good time with the book—the writing style is captivating, and so are the characters, they feel real, you can see the drama unfolding in front of your eyes. So despite my low rating for the novel, I want to praise Anna Jinja for her fabulous writing in this debut novel. I hope she publishes more books, I will be happy to check them out. What this book needed was a much tighter editing of arcs and their closures, and correct labelling.

Thanks to Netgalley and publisher Midwestern books for giving me an e-book of Adopting Grace in exchange for an honest review.

Q: Do I recommend Adopting Grace to my fellow readers?
A: No

As much as I found this book enjoyable as a whole, I can't lie that I'm a bit disappointed with the 'adoption' premise.

Adopting Grace tells a story about Grace, a mother who was adopted from South Korea as a baby. As she faces turmoil in her marriage, it inevitably changes many aspects of her life. From there, she also learned to accept herself. Through her encounter with several people, she came to understand that even though she was adopted, she always had a home and was surrounded by loved ones.

My initial thought was that the story would concentrate on Grace's past and her struggles as an adoptee. Instead, the narrative concentrates on Grace's difficulties with her marriage and her everyday routine. I believe this falls far short of the promised premise.

Despite that, I found myself enjoying the interactions between the characters in this book. Grace and her big family have a very lovely and supportive relationship. Ian, Grace's new neighbor, is also an amusing and captivating character. Although he may not always be there, his presence is like a quiet source of support.

In general, this book talks about the true meaning of family. Because blood relations do not always represent real family. The writing is light and fun, so it is easy to enjoy in a short time.

Thank you to NetGalley and Midwestern Books for the review copy.

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“ Read in 2 hours and 16 minutes.

This is my first read on NetGalley and I want to say thank you for the opportunity:

This book reminded me of Emily in the story, as it also tugged at my heart unexpectedly.

Whilst I am not adopted from another country, I could relate to Grace’s struggles to hold onto the things that she knew, and her fear of not belonging.
These characters were engaging and realistic and, aside from the sometimes clunky dialogue, I consider this a great debut.

Ian was touching, with his open fawning for the unaware Grace, and Mary Anne butchered my heart- as a walking Care Bear, she deserves all the hugs left in the world.

Reminiscent of a Cecilia Ahern story, I was sorry to have swiped the closing page of the page; I’d quickly become absorbed in this story (which is why I read it so quickly) although it felt paused in the middle of the film, rather than the closing credits.

The irony of being forcibly friends with your husbands’ mistress, and hating the neighbour who flaunts the same identity that you hate, just made Grace all the more lovable.

I hope that I’ll see Grace and her chaotic friends and family soon- they’re a good example that it’s never too late to heal.”

I felt so connected with so many parts of this book. I devoured this in 2 days. One of my BFFs was adopted from S Korea as an infant and that is probably what first drew me in. I love this cover (huge dog lover). I was so grateful to score my copy of this book via NetGalley, which has a different cover. I like this one with the dog much more.

I love when I read a book, and it just feels like it was meant for me to read at this particular time in my life. That is how I felt about this one. It was very well rounded as far as serious, funny, sad, happy, all of the emotions were there for me... My only complaint would be that I wished it was longer! I was not ready for it to end. I think it would be really fun to read spin offs from pretty much any of the different characters POVs.

I won't go into details about this one, because it feels unfair to bring down an arc.
I'd say it's partially just not my type of book. If you like lighthearted family stories this might be for you though. However, don't expect to much about adoption, I found the synopsis deceptive on that one.

1,5/5

This to me was truly a story of finding yourself through heartbreak. It presents a person trying to find herself and her role in life, love, and friendships, without taking into consideration what she wants, but rather what she expects others want. The book made me recognise that setting boundaries is important, but finding yourself is even more important, and you should not feel ashamed of being your true self. I really want others to read this and experience a sad, but honest look in the life of a woman absolutely going through it all. Thank you for this story.

I so appreciated reading this book! This is the story of Grace, a 39 year old mom who was adopted from South Korea as a baby. There is so much going on in the book, from her memories growing up in a white family in Iowa, to raising her daughters as a newly single mom after her husband leaves her for another woman. She also has a big family with big personalities, some interesting clients and friends, and a therapist who provides a space for her to process what’s happening in her life. There is a strong focus on Iowa- with real places noted, which was fun! I wish that some of the topics could have had more depth, but overall a funny, emotional, and meaningful look at one woman’s life!

I absolutely loved Grace - the main character. Completely in awe of her self awareness (for the most part), her work, her parenting. Her whole family: such great characters, flaws and all.
Her husband though... just wanted to smack him.
The storyline was interesting to read along, keep you hooked, with flashbacks allowing you to get more context. Grace's character development was also satisfactory.
Regarding adoption: some great gems, conversations about chosen family, different perspectives from adoptive parents. However, it wasn't enough for me. I wish the topic, and Grace's post-adoption journey had been explored in more detail. The problem here perhaps had been my mismanaged expectations from the book blurb - had I gone in blind I would have enjoyed it a lot more!

I got my ARC copy (first one!!) from NetGalley for which I am very grateful.

So many layers. Fun and meaningful.
Thanks to author, publisher and Netgalley for the chance to read this book. While I got the book for free it had no bearing on the rating I gave it.

I gravitate towards books about adoption. I've even written about the subject. This was a remarkable story and told in such a way that I became invested and pulled into it from the first few pages. I enjoyed Jinja's writing style. I applaud her bravery and authentic storytelling. Thanks to NetGalley for the ARC.