This sweeping multi-generational family saga is set against a backdrop of Southeast Asia, specifically Thailand and Malaya from the early 1900s to the present. The title refers to the nickname given to the family matriarch and the author’s grandmother Chalerm, who always aspired to live in a big western-style bungalow, an aspiration that was fulfilled. Through the experiences of Chalerm with the European men she cohabited with and whose children she bore, we learn of the sometimes loving but always complicated relationships that occurred between Asian women and Western men. The book offers the reader a truly fascinating portrait of life during the colonial era, and the social and cultural life at that time, when having an Asian mistress was both common and accepted. Brewster sets personal life against historical events, including the Japanese invasion during WWII. Richly detailed, it all makes for a compelling narrative, and is clearly and accessibly written, managing to include a wealth of information and insight without becoming overwhelming. It’s well illustrated with family photographs, which give life to the people portrayed. My main criticism is that Brewster has invented so many conversations that are clearly unverifiable and this jarred on me.

Before this book I had never really thought about the people of this time or place. This book totally opened my eyes and I most definitely recommend this book!