My Phantoms
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Pub Date 1 Apr 2021 | Archive Date 13 Apr 2021
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Description
From the prize-winning author of FIRST LOVE comes an eviscerating account of a toxic mother-daughter bond, grief, and the damage done in the course of a life.
Bridget's mother is dying. An extrovert with few friends who has sought intimacy in the wrong places; a twice-divorced mother-of-two now living alone surrounded by her memories, Helen (known to her acquaintances as 'Hen') has always haunted her daughter.
Now, as together they approach the end, Bridget looks back on their tumultuous relationship - the performances and small deceptions - and tries to reckon with the cruelties inflicted on both sides. With so little time left, can these two warring women find a bruised accord?
Advance Praise
'What a phenomenal ear she has, and how remorselessly funny she is - My Phantoms is unmissably good'
- Kevin Barry, author of Night Boat to Tangier
'I read My Phantoms with great pleasure. It's a wonderful combination of achingly sad and subversively funny, simultaneously sharp and tender, and always finely observed. The dialogue is pitch perfect. The relationships are agonising. It's a subtle book, with big themes lightly drawn and precisely rendered, about how to live and how to love'
- Monica Ali, author of Brick Lane
Available Editions
| EDITION | Hardcover |
| ISBN | 9781783783267 |
| PRICE | £12.99 (GBP) |
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Featured Reviews
Cathy B, Reviewer
I loved First Love, but Gwendoline Riley's follow up My Phantoms is even better. The ostensibly simple story of an antagonistic relationship between a daughter and her mother, My Phantoms captures the pain, joy and day to day grind of maintaining familial relationships. It is both horrifying and deathly funny with a real emotional depth and has a final paragraph that will rip your heart out. Highly recommended.
Bridget has got a difficult relationship with her mother. According to Bridget -and I guess it's true- her mother finds it hard to really engage in things and people and to really connect, so their relationship feels uncomfortable and forced. What I felt more and more during my reading of the book though, was that Bridget is also to blame for their dysfunctional relationship. She is not very emphatic towards her mother and is occasionally even mean.
A very engrossing read, which describes the complexity of familial relationships beautifully. Gwendoline Riley is an exceptional writer!
Thank you Granta and Netgalley for the ARC
Sarah T, Reviewer
A mother -daughter relationship gone wrong - the daughter keeps her distance perhaps because she is worried that her mother will taint her life with her bad luck and attitude.
Enjoyable in a weird way - the relationship is beautifully described, I felt the daughter's embarrassment and frustration at her mother's choices. The ending is quite abrupt - but then life can be like that I suppose. A recommendation.
Gwendoline Riley has been on my radar for a while because of her widely acclaimed novel First Love but My Phantoms is the first book of hers I’ve read. In some ways, it is not an easy read, it deals with dysfunctional families, it is sad and uncomfortable at times but Riley’s sparse yet absorbing writing style makes it very readable and thought provoking.
My Phantoms is a first person account of Bridget’s relationship with her dysfunctional family. Meticulously detailed and observed, it mostly focuses on her relationship with her mother, Hen. As an adult, Bridget only occasionally speaks to or sees her mother and these meetings are always painfully awkward. She speaks to her sister Michelle even less. Their father, Lee is brilliantly brought to life as Bridget remembers her childhood but she has since stopped contact with him. Yet through these dissections of phone conversations, visits to relatives or annual mother-daughter birthday dinners it sadly becomes apparent that Bridget lacks any self-awareness and empathy. She tries but it’s as if she somehow lacks the emotional intelligence to have meaningful relationships with others. Ultimately, I found My Phantoms quite moving and very good.
My thanks to Netgalley and Granta Publications for the opportunity to read My Phantoms.
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