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Pub Date 7 May 2026 | Archive Date 6 May 2026


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FROM THE PULITZER-WINNING, BOOKER-SHORTLISTED ELIZABETH STROUT COMES A STUNNING STANDALONE NOVEL OF LOVE, LONELINESS AND NEW BEGINNINGS

'Emotionally stunning, devastatingly wise . . . her best novel yet' RACHEL JOYCE

‘A moving, tender and wise novel about a committed teacher who is utterly confounded by the emotional complexities of daily life. This might be Elizabeth Strout’s best yet’ CLARE CHAMBERS


Artie Dam is a man with a secret. He spends his days teaching history to high schoolers, expanding their young minds, correcting their casual cruelties, and lending a kind word to those who need it most. He goes to holiday parties with his wife of three decades, makes small talk with neighbours, and, on weekends, takes his sailboat out on the beautiful Massachusetts Bay. He is, by all appearances, present and alive. But inside, Artie is plagued by feelings of isolation. He looks out at a world gone mad—at himself and the people around him—and turns a question over and over in his mind: how is it that we know so little about one another, even those closest to us?

And then, one day, Artie learns that life has been keeping a secret from him, one that threatens to upend his entire world. Once he learns it, he is forced to chart a new course, to reconsider the relationships he holds most dear—and to make peace with the mysteries at the heart of our existence.

With exquisite prose and profound insight, Elizabeth Strout captures the way grief reverberates through decades, the comfort found in deep friendships and the freedom that comes when we break free of our secrets. The Things We Never Say is a stunning new novel from one of our most acclaimed observers of the human heart.

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PRAISE FOR ELIZABETH STROUT:

'A terrific writer' ZADIE SMITH

'A superbly gifted storyteller' HILARY MANTEL

'Elizabeth Strout is one of my very favourite writers' ANN PATCHETT

'Strout's ability to reveal wonder in unrecorded lives continues to astonish' TELEGRAPH

'She gets better with each book' MAGGIE O'FARRELL

'A beautiful read' OPRAH WINFREY

'Strout is, as ever, wonderfully attentive life's escapable cruelties and woes' SUNDAY TIMES

FROM THE PULITZER-WINNING, BOOKER-SHORTLISTED ELIZABETH STROUT COMES A STUNNING STANDALONE NOVEL OF LOVE, LONELINESS AND NEW BEGINNINGS

'Emotionally stunning, devastatingly wise . . . her best novel...


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ISBN 9780241814307
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PAGES 224

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Artie Dam is new to Strout's world building and yet after only a few pages you feel like you've known him forever, he fits so well. I always forget how elegantly Strout writes and how effortlessly she makes it seem and it's always slightly awe inspiring to read one of her books. So many things happen in such a quiet but profoundly powerful way. Her characters are layered and nuanced. They struggle with joy and sorrow and their lives are filled with both in such a richly generous way. This is written so simply and packs such a profoundly emotional punch. I cried at least three times and not always because I was sad.

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I have read all of Elizabeth Strout’s novels and never been disappointed by the quality of her writing and her empathy with her characters and their lives. I feel she has surpassed herself this time round. Everything I have enjoyed before is still there in spades but she surprised me by her outraged political take on events in her and her characters’ country. But then these are unprecedented times in America and things need saying.

Artie is a joy. I was rooting for him throughout the unsettling twists and turns he experiences. I found his relationship with his son and daughter-in-law and the way it evolves deeply moving. He is a teacher who treats his students with respect and teaches them to respect that others have difficulties in their lives that are not always immediately apparent. Danny and Rhonda could so easily have accepted failure where Artie ensured they did not. The snapshot of these two at the end of the novel is especially poignant.

‘In his study of history, he had learned about the leaders, and the various groups involved, but he had somehow missed this fact about every single person: that they held within themselves a vast, unknowable universe.’

A perfect novel for me and I couldn’t recommend it more highly. No need to have read any of her previous work but there is a wealth of back catalogue out there to enjoy.

With thanks to Penguin via NetGalley for the opportunity to read an ARC.

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I absolutely loved every page of this novel and am sad to have finished it. It is a wonderful book - sad, uplifting and realistic - about Artie Dam, a middle-aged history teacher and his family and students. Often I would have to stop reading as the writing was just so brilliant and I’d need a moment to revel in it, or, after one of the devastating sentences in brackets, recover from it. Elizabeth Strout has an extraordinary ability to bring characters to life and after a few paragraphs if Artie had walked into the room, I wouldn’t have been surprised. His relationship with his son Rob is touching and heartbreaking at the same time. Artie is one of the most unforgettable characters I have ever met. I highly recommend The Things We Never Say. I love all of Elizabeth Strout’s books and this is my favourite. It’s perfect.

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As Evie would say wow what a book. Elizabeth Strout never lets us down. This is a novel filled with human life described in the relationships with we have with ourself and with others. I think that the fragility of our subconscious is what is looked at in this story. Based around a few people we are shown how to love and what it looks like under a lens. I will highly recommend this book to all that will listen. Thank you for allowing me an advance reading.

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Elizabeth Strout is back with her latest release The Things We Never Say. Fans of her previous work will be happy to hear this book contains all the charm and quiet moments that we have come to love. This book follows high school history teacher Artie Dam as he contemplates his life and modern day American society. Filled with some really beautiful and reflective moments I really loved spending time with Artie. The book is of course beautifully written and completely immerses you in this mans perspective. Another quiet but deeply moving and heartfelt read.

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Elizabeth Strout has to be one of my favourite Authors, she never disappoints. Such delicate and simply storytelling which reads effortlessly despite containing the most realistic and human characters you will find.

Artie Dam has quickly become someone I have a real soft spot for, a man of advanced years dealing with the modern world "They're called women Dad, not girls" in a calm and realistic way. His relationships are normal, his job as a high-school teacher is normal, and yet there is a secret which could turn his world upside down.

Heartfelt, beautiful, im a little bereft now this is over.

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I enjoyed this book. I found it has quiet power in a compact, piercing novel about a high school teacher, Artie Dam, whose seemingly stable life unravels after a single revelation exposes the emotional voids he's long ignored.

The writing and the plot is exquisitely precise and compassionate, turning everyday loneliness, strained marriages, and unspoken regrets into something deep and emotional without ever tipping into sentimentality.

The narrative occasionally feels understated which helps with the emotional payoff,

The explorations of grief, friendship, and the courage to speak truth in a fractured world feels real and very human.

This is a moving read and one that I thought about for days after.

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Artie Dam is a history teacher in the USA. In his struggle to come to terms with a changing world, he starts to ask deep questions about life, friends and family. When a long-held secret about his close family is revealed he is shaken to the core. Strout writes with insight and empathy in this novel about ordinary lives. All the characters felt so real. I liked the social commentary and references to contemporary events which added depth and context to the story. A beautifully written and thought-provoking read.

Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an arc in exchange for an honest review.

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