'In this powerful and potentially life-changing book... the US journalist and author argues that in this age of technology and political division, actually just listening is more important than ever.'

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'An essential book for our times. How well we listen determines how we love, learn, and connect with one another, and in this moment when we need to hear and be heard more than ever, this thought-provoking and engaging book shows us how.'

Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

'I was instantly hooked by Kate Murphy's simple but profound argument – that although listening is the foundation of communication, innovation, growth, an love, few of us really know how to do it properly, or where to even start. You're Not Listening is a captivating and enlightening book that provides readers with a road map on how to listen and why it is so important to how we connect, work, and live.'

Kim Scott, New York Times bestselling author of Radical Candor

'In an age when technology has made it easier than ever before to talk with each other, we've been paradoxically become worse at listening. Fortunately, we have Kate Murphy to teach us how to reclaim this crucial skill. This book changed the way I think about communicating with the people who matter to me.'

Cal Newport, New York Times bestselling author of Deep Work and Digital Minimalism