A raw, multi-vocal memoir of a family’s resilience after sudden tragedies, exploring the honest journey of living with it. 

On May 27, 1999, the world stopped turning for Tom. His daughter—a devoted wife, mother, nurse, and beloved friend—was killed in a sudden accident. While her infant son survived, the family she left behind was shattered—paralyzed by grief and struggling to hold onto one another through the storm.

In this candid and deeply personal memoir, Tom shares the reality of the aftermath. Through his writing, he doesn’t walk alone. The voices of those close to Heather—her mother, brother, husband, cousin, and friends—weave together a portrait of love, resilience, and the power of grief that shaped a family.

This is no clinical guide to “moving on.” Instead, it’s an honest account of living with the loss. Follow the journey of wrestling with anger and faith while finding unexpected comfort in “Heather Hi’s” in the darkness.

For anyone who has felt the unrelenting grip of grief, this book serves as a companion. Let it offer you a reminder: you are not alone.